Zari Hassan has been in the public eye for a very long time; more so during and after her relationship with Tanzania’s Diamond Platnumz.
During the relationship, many criticized her for being older than Diamond. It was the price she paid for loving him…that and of course Diamond’s cheating scandal.
Now she has moved on with a new man, also younger than her. The mother of 5 took to Instagram to share her thoughts on people judging other people’s relationships.
“It has become a habit in society that we tend to judge people’s relationships in one way or another,” she began.
“Matters of the heart are however complicated to some extent that is beyond our understanding.
When a young girl dates an older man she is instantly branded a gold digger, when an older woman dates a younger man she is a cradle snatcher or desperate person.
When you date a not so good looking man or woman, that also raises a few eyebrows. Society also narrows you down depending on your status.
E.g a doctor or pilot can’t date a woman working in a market stall…it becomes a conversation of ‘levels’ depending on what one does for a living.
When a woman or man dates someone more financially established by status quo it becomes a case of ”you are after her or his money.”
Zari shared her thoughts – which are that love is and should be unconditional. It can be found in the most bizarre places with the least expected person.
“Its not the status nor the levels, not the financial stability or the public elevated status,” finished Zari.
To the critics already judging Zari for her relationship with the younger King Bae, let her be. She is in love and happy.