Focus On Your Marriage And Stop Comparing It To Others – Nigerian TV Host Advises

Television personality Bukunmi Adeaga-Ilori is advising people not to solely concentrate on getting married and giving birth because that is not an achievement.

Before you insult her, read why she said that. According to the Nigerian TV host, marriage and childbirths are blessing from God and he(God) brings them at his time hence it is wrong for an individual to use people’s marriage as a yardstick.

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She added that one cannot control such supernatural things so they should not focus entirely on it.

Bukunmi Adeaga-Ilori also told her followers not to let society pressure them into taking haste decisions because “you can’t make other people’s marriage or children your own standard or yardstick to measure your performance “

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Advising her followers to focus on themselves, she wrote,

“Being married is not an achievement! Having children is not an achievement either! These things are blessings! Only given by God! It has nothing to do with how intelligent, famous or successful you are!

And for these reasons you can’t make other people’s marriage or children your own standard or yardstick to measure your performance in these fields or your overall success level in life.

Nobody’s marriage is goals! I repeat, NOBODY’S MARRIAGE is goals!! God is the one scoring your own goals! FOCUS ON YOU!!!!”.

SOURCE: AfricaCelebrities.Com