Who Wants A Perfect Marriage?

My mum once told me this when I was in primary school at Suame a suburb of Kumasi, “Akwasi, a gentleman does not run when it is raining” she said. As I grow up, I derive a different clue from this statement on every issue that confronts me in this journey called life, so in this instance I see it as “a wise man is the one who is able to live with things that probably he cannot change”.

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Who wants a perfect marriage? I call upon a stone and it fails to come to my aid, it is then that I realize that, it is human being that counts. If you are in a quest to marry someone who is ‛perfect’ then you are miles away from that perfect imperfect person. On the funny side of it, I will say perfect people are made perfect by imperfect people. If you look for perfection, you will never found one. For what sort of pool option you have, be it of your choice or not, there is an ideal iota of perfection. Don’t be expecting the perfect picture when the lens is mortal.

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Seeking for perfection, demands perfection. The place of meeting a spouse or the state in which you were equals to zero. Love perfects love. I am not against your choice or selection because the honeymoon phase counts. What people usually look out for in their marriage discourse is a perfect marriage? But the issue is, is there anything like a perfect marriage? Or will a perfect person even consider someone as an imperfect person?

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Many marriages today collapse just within a twinkling of saying I do. What do you do? One significant thing that needs to be identified in the very person is to see him as someone you can call on when the need arises, shoulders you can lean on and hands that are willing to carry you through the wind that is blowing and a heart that is ever willing to accept you even when his or her heart is in trouble. If marriage certificates were renewable, would you renew? You can find uniqueness in the flower and not the bride. You will find perfect in the gown and not the groom.

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